Choosing a boudoir wardrobe can be nerve wracking. When you think of boudoir photography, you’re probably picturing dramatic lighting, dark jewel tones, scrappy lingerie, or maybe even some more exotic props.
While lingerie is often the go-to wardrobe choice, it’s not the only option! I myself am not a big lingerie girl, and I am a firm believer that you can be just as sexy in a tank top as you can in a teddy. If traditional lingerie isn’t your style or you’re looking for something unique, here are some alternative wardrobe ideas to make your boudoir session truly your own.
1. Cozy and Comfy
Sometimes, the sexiest look is the one that makes you feel the most comfortable. Think about oversized sweaters, knee-high socks, or even a soft blanket draped around you. A relaxed and intimate vibe can be just as stunning as something more revealing. It can also be a great way to break the ice on a boudoir session if you’re nervous about being in such a vulnerable position.
2. Your Partner’s Clothes
Wearing your partner’s button-down shirt, favorite hoodie, or even their favorite sports jersey adds a personal touch to your boudoir session. It makes the shoot feel even more meaningful while giving a playful, romantic edge to your photos.
3. Elegant Dresses and Robes
A silky robe, a lacy slip dress, or a flowing gown can create a look that’s both sexy and sophisticated. Robes and dresses allow for movement, adding a dreamy, ethereal quality to your boudoir images, and then can also help you feel a little more covered up, which can be a huge benefit if you’re feeling nervous about stripping down in front of the camera.
4. Don’t Underestimate a Pair of Classic Blue Jeans
Another bold and effortlessly sexy option is wearing jeans with no top at all. The simplicity of denim paired with bare skin creates a striking, confident, and timeless look. Whether leaning against a wall, playing with lighting and shadows, or embracing movement, this look exudes strength and sensuality in a raw and natural way.
For a natural, artistic, and whimsical look, consider pairing a classic pair of jeans with long-stem flowers used as a “top.” This ethereal and creative styling choice adds a fresh and romantic feel to your session. The contrast between the structured denim and the delicate flowers creates a visually stunning and unique aesthetic that highlights both strength and femininity. An added benefit is you can take the flowers home with you and enjoy them after your session is over.
5. The White Sheet Look
A timeless and effortlessly sensual option is posing with just a white sheet. This look allows for elegant draping and creative posing, giving off a soft and intimate feel. The versatility of a simple sheet lets you reveal as much or as little as you want, making it a perfect choice for those who want a minimalist yet striking aesthetic. It is also by far the most affordable “clothing” option on this list! Lingerie can be expensive!
6. Nothing but Confidence
Speaking of affordable, at the end of the day, the best thing you can wear is confidence. If you feel your best in something minimal or even nothing at all (tastefully done, of course), then go for it! Boudoir is about embracing your beauty in whatever way feels right to you.
Final Thoughts
Your boudoir session is all about self-expression and feeling amazing in your own skin. Whether you choose cozy loungewear, bold statement pieces, or a mix of everything, the most important thing is that you feel comfortable and confident. Your session should be a reflection of your personal style—so embrace what makes you feel most beautiful!
Are you ready to book your boudoir session? Let’s create something that makes you feel empowered and radiant!
